Face your Fears
It may be a natural response to avoid what we find
scary - but that doesn't mean it's the best response. When people with
phobias dodge whatever it is that fills them with terror and anxiety
they usually compound the problem - sometimes to such an extent that it
eventually cripples their lives. And that is worth avoiding.
Specific
phobias (excessive fear related to exposure to specific objects or
situations) can affect up to one-third of the population at some point
in their lives. Data released last year from a Stress and Health Study
conducted nationally from January 2002 to August 2004 shows that 9,8%
of Americans will suffer from agoraphobia (excessive anxiety about
being in places or situations that may cause panic attacks) at some
time in their lives and 2,8% will suffer from social phobia (the
excessive fear of experiencing humiliation or embarrassment in a social
context).
Despite this
frequency, few people seek treatment. Most people only seek treatment
when the phobia becomes severe and interferes significantly with their
personal lives, career or interpersonal relationships.
Panic Mode
The
definition of 'phobia' is 'a persistent, irrational fear of a specific
object, activity or situation that leads to a compelling desire to
avoid it'. This 'solution', however, soon becomes part of the problem.
Avoidance and control behaviors become a handicap, forcing people to
use up time, energy and attention that could be better spent on other
things. People with a phobia become adept at avoiding that phobic
object or situation so they never face the fear, which then becomes
more intense and causes the avoidance to be more extreme.
Gradually
the sufferer's life may become increasingly restricted and governed by
the phobia. For example, socially phobic people learn to avoid social
situations that lead to anxiety. They may eventually avoid
public-speaking engagements, eating in public or using public toilets.
Over time the person avoids almost all social encounters and may even
become housebound.
A phobia may also become
inclusive of other things related to the phobic object or situation. A
person who has a phobia of furry dogs may start to fear anything furry,
and then can't even look at a picture of furry dogs or other furry
objects. As more and more situations and objects are avoided, the
sufferer's world starts to close in.
When phobic
disorders go untreated they can lead to secondary conditions such as
depression, other anxiety disorders, substance abuse and even suicide.
Many people with social phobia become dependent on alcohol or sedatives
and use them to reduce their anxiety.
Face the Fear
Two
popular treatments for phobias are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
and hypnotherapy. There is no good evidence that hypnotherapy is an
effective treatment for specific phobias. CBT, however, is useful in
the treatment of both specific and social phobias. With CBT, people are
gradually exposed to their feared situations, beginning with the
situation they fear the least. In people with social phobia, CBT can be
used to correct dysfunctional thoughts about fear of failure,
humiliation or embarrassment.
With CBT it's
important that exposure is graded and repeated, as forced and quick
exposure is likely to reinforce the phobia. Treatment is also not
dependent on knowing the cause or root of the phobia. By just
recognizing and diagnosing the symptoms, treatment through CBT can be
very effective.