How to Maximize the Sexual Arousal and Excitement

Achieving an intense orgasm is a divine pleasure that one can experience while making love. But sometime due to certain problems, either men or women do not experience that height of sexual pleasure. In this article we will discuss some aspects on orgasm and how men and women feel during those peak moments.

If arousal takes place without release it is likely to cause discomfort. That discomfort can best be handled through mutual expression of care and affirmation. If you are a woman who consistently experiences arousal without release it is crucial that you share this with your partner. Let him know what your body feels like so that the two of you can move closer together. There can be some relief even in being reached out to. He needs to know what you need.

A woman’s body is designed so that she can have another orgasm at any point of the resolution phase. It can be five seconds, five minutes or fifty minutes after the previous orgasm. There is no waiting or rest period necessary before she is physically capable of experiencing another orgasm if the stimulation is continued or renewed. Her body does not need to return to its pre-stimulated state before it can be responsive again.

After orgasmic release, the man returns rather quickly to the pre-stimulated state. His erection may not decrease completely, but the penis is usually somewhat flaccid and the testicles lower. There is a loss in the tension build up and in the intensity of the feelings. Some men report that the glans or head of the penis becomes very sensitive to touch after and ejaculation and that because of this they want to quickly disengage from their partner. It is important to know that a significant number of men feel this post ejaculation pain. If you experience this discomfort, it is crucial to share this with your partner so that she be sympathetic and understanding, rather than taking your withdrawal as a kind of rejection.

It is rare for a man not to experience orgasm. However, there are some men (especially older men) who do not need an orgasm and who do not feel frustrated without one.

You can stimulate the sexual excitement and lust both in yourself and your partner by the surrounding you choose for making love, by the atmosphere you create at that place and by using special products targeted for this purpose. There are many sexual enhancement products like libido enhancers, lubricants, pills and creams to reignite the passion hours for more intimate relationship.