Seducing Women - How to Make Conversation With Women Part 2
If you've been reading all my articles so far (and I hope you have)
you will know that last time I started to talk about conversations with
women. I only really discussed conversing with women when approaching
them. I'm going to go more in-depth now and also move on to talk about
conversations on dates and the overlapping issues.
Firstly,
telling a compelling story on a date can work just as well as when you
are approaching a woman, however, there is one key difference; YOU
SHOULD NOT LIE ABOUT A STORY WHEN ON A DATE YOU MAY WANT TO FOLLOW UP
ON!
Allow me to explain... You approach a woman, talk to her and
create a story to tell her about an incident. She is not going to care
at this point whether the story is true or not, she is using the story
more to get an idea about YOU more so than actually caring about what
you are saying. If you're compelling enough at this stage, she will not
care about the story. The story is just a tool, just as it is for you,
to see how interesting you can be.
However, if you enter a date
with a girl, chances are she is going to begin to feel something for
you on some level, whether it be lust, liking you, trust, or whatever.
A date is the beginning stage for all of that to take place. If you
tell a story like this and the girl is interested in you, chances are
she will tell her friends about this cool story you told her so she can
brag how interesting the guy she is dating is. If she somehow finds out
it is not true, she will look stupid in front of her friends and will
most likely be very annoyed. Not a scenario you want happening, unless
of course you are in it for a very short-term fling (as this is all it
will be).
That is the main difference between telling a story on
a date and telling a story when approaching. Another thing to bear in
mind when talking to women is avoiding boring or controversial
subjects. Some good examples of this are school, work, politics,
religion, family (unless you are planning on marrying the girl on the
spot), past relationships (see family and replace 'marrying girl' with
'being psychiatrist') and 'what she is looking for in a guy'.
Now,
if you are able to turn something in that list from boring to fun, by
all means try it. For example, if you want to find out what line of
work she is in so that you can playfully make fun of her for it, that
is absolutely fine, provided you make it more interesting, i.e. "You
work as a Bank-teller? That's cool, so how much cash do you get to
keep? Oh, I figured you must be pocketing 10%."
A good
conversational technique, as used there, is what is called 'Busting on
a woman', which is known in various places as 'Cocky Comedy', 'Busting
her balls', 'C & F (cocky and funny) or 'Tease to please'. It's
where you take some arrogance and mix it with some humour, or take a
compliment and mix it with something not so complimentary; "Nice bag,
are you carrying a gun in that thing?" This is a technique that can
work when approaching a woman or also on a date, but it can work two
ways; Either the girl will be so uptight that she just will not
appreciate it at all (which means she likely was not worth bothering
with to start with), or she will think 'This is an interesting, funny
guy. I'm going to continue talking to him and see if this is an act'.
It's
worth noting that a lot of guys who first get into seduction think that
busting on a woman is the be-all and end-all of conversation
techniques, however it is just one tool in your toolkit and should not
be used too often.
Have fun trying all of that and I'll talk to you soon,
Your buddy,
Eros
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